I have just finished watching "where to invade next".
Probably watching this movie is the right choice, given that I am just back from USA while I am moving to a different country in Europe. And its vision also pushed me into posting one more comment on my trip.
The movie itself is about the differences between USA and Europe, and about what one continent can "steal" from the other, even if in fact the ideas already circulated quite a lot (I don’t want to spoil the movie for you!).
In my life I have visited and experienced more of the country than the average American (at least according to this: http://www.livability.com/topics/business-and-economy/how-many-states-has-the-average-american-visited ), I have seen places where “nobody” goes and some of the most touristy attraction of the country. After this time I am still intrigued by USA and without shame I can say “I do love USA”. I really thought I was just going to stay there, become a citizen and have a family, and by doing this just witness the incredible “assimilation” phenomenon that make foreigners become “Americans”, while here in Europe, no matter how French I can become I will always be an Italian (as it was when I lived in Germany and Britain, if Britain is Europe!).
I still admire the hope and the passion people can put in things, how strong they can embrace ideas and even religions. The spirit of the country is so different from mine.
At the same time I am writing this while walking by myself after midnight in a city which is definitely not home. And just by doing this I see what makes me love Europe and live here now. I can feel thoughtless without speaking the language, without having signed my contract, my lease, my bank account, my additional health insurance, without carrying a gun and paying too much attention to my surroundings, and I don’t have people shouting around me while cars speed everywhere honking their clacson.
There hasn't been a single city I would have felt fine doing the same in USA. (Possibly in National Parks)
And the walk and the movie make me see that in some ways what makes USA so lovable from another point of view is also what makes it so “hateful”.
So many people making others opinion their own without questioning them, and taking this careless behaviour to its extreme, in discrimination, sexism, racism, xenofobia, marginalisation, prejudice and so on. Offering a “green card” as passport to great values of hope, joy, justice, democracy, opportunities and (second) possibilities while expressing just a shallow range of emotions and customs/traditions as a nation that empty these words of (part of) their meaning.
I still look at USA with so much hope. I think as a country and also the single people I know can open their eyes. Be more accommodating. Realise life is not a constant struggle and the majority of conflicts (at ANY level) can be resolved through talk and comprehension and not by hate and a constant sense of superiority.
Where will I settle? wait, will I ever settle??
Today the answer is “probably no” and about USA I can just echo a fellow European in saying “I’ll be back”.